Wednesday, August 18, 2010

A boyfriend problem I don't know how to deal with...?

I've been seeing this boy for a few months now and we recently made it official because I liked the fact that he was so laid back and we're only 17 so it was just a bit of fun and I do really like him but he recently told me he loved me and I didn't say it back because I don't think I feel as strongly about it- what am I meant to do?! :(A boyfriend problem I don't know how to deal with...?
well......it sounds like he really does love you, and was probably hurt by you not saying it back, so the best thing to do is to tell him that you dont love him, tell him you really like him instead. Cuz I had a gf once and we broke up after a couple of months partly cuz i loved her and but she never told she loved me she didnt even tell she liked me, but it felt like we were in love and we got along so well but she never told me the truth about her feelings, so i broke up with her.A boyfriend problem I don't know how to deal with...?
tell him how you really feel that even though you can be sure that you love him you feel so strong about him and that you dont want to throw the word love around so lightly because it is a big deal. sometimes men say love and they think they are in love but just hooked or just say it to say it as the same with girls.mabey he does love you so just tell him what you really feel.
He's into the relationship alot more than you are. If you don't see this relationship going anywhere, you should let him know that, so to not waste his time. If you think there may be a future, just leave it alone and see what happens. Eventually, the answers will be clear as crystal.
Not sure if you are going to remember him in 10 years' time, but surely your education would benefit in 10 years' time if you were to concentrate on it now. Good luck
Give it time. Most couples won't feel that they love their romantic partner at the same time, so in most relationships, it's normal to go through a phrase where 1 person says they love the other, and the other person isn't sure if they reciprocate yet.
you dont have to say it to make him feel good if you dont really feel that way about him .. just spend more time with him and the love will come .. and if it doesnt then he just isnt right for you , and there is someone who you'd really love , cause there is someone for everyone
Just because he tells you those words doesn't mean you need to say them back if your not ready.Your only 17,and at this age your suppose to be having a life time of fun.You have only been with him for a few months.Is he telling you that so you could be flatter that a guy says he loves you and then it would be easy for him to have you all the way? Don't do anything and say what you don't feel.Don't feel pressure to say it back to him because you think you hurt his feelings.If and when your ready to say it to some guy you will know that it's more than a like because you will feel it in your heart and soul.
U don't have to say'; I love you'; just because your boy said. U can always say that you really like him and you happy to be with him, and when the time comes... when you gonna feel that you


love him enough to say'; I love you'; then just say it:)
Just leave it. Sounds like he wants to get into your pants a little too early.
in that case you must end this relationship strictly


there is no point in continuing please let him know that as soon as possible


until it becomes too late for him to forget you and move on in life
u r meant to analyse ur emotional attachment and concerns about each-other and u'll get ur answer!
dont worry about it, dont tell him until you feel comfortable saying it - and just because you don't love him doesnt mean you can't be with him...the love will grow and come to you eventually

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