How to deal with my boyfriends very immature baby mama?

My boyfriends ex and him had a child together 2 years ago. She left him right after the baby was born and treated him like crap until he got with me, 1 year ago. When she realized he was happy and that him and I want the same things, she tried to get back together with him using the baby of coarse. He confronted her and told her he wants nothing to do with her just the baby, He's a great father by the way. After that happened she makes up crazy lies all the time, like for example at least twice a week she calls out of no where saying her friends died and she needs to go out of town. or says she needs to go to work, we know she doesn't. We had the baby for 5 months straight while she was out stripping and doing drugs. Anyways, We are having a baby together and i'm 3 months pregnant. As soon as she found out she said that she was pregnant too, then called 2 days later saying we need to watch the baby for a week because she had a miscarrige and has to stay in the hospital for a week. I know I have to deal with the babys mother I know what I got myself into and I love my man and his baby more than anything, I would just like some real good advice on how not to get so frustrated and wonder so much why people lie like that? It's crazy.How to deal with my boyfriends very immature baby mama?
Well for one if she is stripping and doing drugs, why has the babies father not gone for full costudy? Don't you think that child should have a better home? The baby is with you most of the time anyway. People are just like that. They want what they can't have. She did not give a **** about him, but when she saw how happy you two were she wanted it back to try to be happy as well. She is just pissed cause she was a ***** and missed out. Trust me my husband has an ex wife that is just awful. So I know what your going through. Just be the bigger person and act like she does not bother you. Don't let her get to you, she is not worth it. You have the man and it sounds to me like 2 great kids and one on the way. So right there you have the better life then her. Good Luck.How to deal with my boyfriends very immature baby mama?
I would take her to court to set up a schedule of when each of you are supposed to have the baby so she cannot use excuses to give it away whenever she feels like it. Also, if you feel she should not have the baby at all, you could easily go for full custody if the stripping and drugs is true and you can prove it. This would make it alot easier when you are dealing with her and will make a more stable environment for you, him, his baby, and your baby once it is born.
just remain the bigger person and look on the bright side, when she is doing what ever it is she is doing when she lies your boyfriend gets alot of quility time with his baby. Also if she screws up to much or becomes a danger through drugs or lifestyle maybe he should consider filling for custody.
have ex GF and your BF communicate through email in a business like manner. who knows one day you might need it in court. hope you guys can arrange some kind of consistant schedule it is better for the baby.
some people are just like that. Just be the bigger person and try your best to maturely withstand the bullshit she tosses at you. There's not much you can do.
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First of all congrats on the new baby, second, yes you will have to deal with this crazy ';baby mama drama'; for the rest of you life now, only because you are pregnant! But Dont let her get the best of you. Its not your fault they are not together, and she knows that. You got with him a year after they split, but she is miserable and wants her man back and he no longer belongs to her. You and him are a family now and he needs to make sure he keeps his word to you. The next time this girl leaves the baby with you both for 5 months, have him call the cops! He can get her in trouble, take her rights away and then she can have time to grow the F**k up! Some girls are really pathetic and she is using the fact that she has a baby with your ';man'; to try and win her way in his life. Just make sure that you set boundaries for her. dont let yourself allow her to run over you! You deserve to be respected! and you are a GREAT girlfriend for being such a good ';step mother'; to his child. because after all its not the babies fault that her mothe is a crazy b**CH... Good LUCK!