Should I break up with my drug dealing boyfriend??

I have been with J for a year now and since i've known him he's always smoked cannabis.. and a lot of it.. like everysingle day. I don't have a massive problem with it i just ask him not to do it when he;s with me cos he really bores me when he's stoned....


Since we;ve been together (1 year) he's been in 3 different jobs and none of these have lasted more than 3 months.. meaning that most of the time he;s jobless meaning he's got no money. Im a student and also have no money which means we hardly ever see each other. This really upsets me and recently we've been having soooo many arguments about it cos i tell him to GET A JOB but he;s always putting it off and doesnt seem to care how not having a job/any money affects our relationship. He says he misses me like crazy but if he misses me that much WHY DOESNT HE GET A JOB?!?!


would it be easier just to break up???


oh and he's also started selling cannabis too which I HATE.


PLEEEASSE help!!Should I break up with my drug dealing boyfriend??
dump him


it may hurt now becuase of your 'puppy love'


but when you get older and you move on to better things you'll realize it was the right decision and it was just that, puppy love.Should I break up with my drug dealing boyfriend??
Why is there even a QUESTION about that? Dump the fool.
yes its time to break up with him sweetie. do you honestly believe it would work out? if he does get another job it may not last long anyway. and if he does and deals drugs its not a good boyfriend to have. break up and since you're in college you can find better guys. you are just settling for him just because he's what you can call a boyfriend. go out with friends and meet new people and you will find someone worth your time. dont waste your time with him.


good luck
throw him in the dump
He doesn't get a job because he's lazy and doesn't care. You don't need to be around this guy at all. You could get into trouble if you're with him when he's dealing---guilty by association, an accessory. Please, you don't need this guy as a friend, b/f, or even as an acquaintance. You know you deserve better.
Trying to change a man is like trying to bend a rock. He has to make his own choices and decisions in life and you have to make yours. I'm sure he has a number of redeeming qualities, if he didn't you wouldn't have given him a year of your life that you can't get back; that being said, it seems that the two of you are on different paths in life, you're young as you're a still student so as much as it may hurt to admit now, chances are you're going to grow apart as time goes by anyway so it's better to do it now rather than later. I'm sorry but I think you already know what you have to do.
no duh u shuld break up with him, get him some help he's an addict!
OK let's see:





Good things about him:





NOTHING





Bad things about him:





Smokes cannabis


Sells cannabis


No job


No cash


Never sees you





Yes it would be easier to break up.
yes, youshouldbreakupwith him.andyouknow thereason,sodont ask just do it
Oh honey - yes, leave him. You KNOW you need to leave him - but you can't leave that good sex - right? BUT we both know a woman will never leave a man, no matter how messed up he is...until she's ';tired of his mess for real this time'; ready. So, I guess you need to answer this question yourself.
yes DUHHH is could be dangerous
DEFINITELY break up with that loser! He will get busted selling, and you don't want to be with him when that happens! Just tell him you can't be with a drug dealer, and you are going to find a guy who has a REAL job! Because you deserve it, honey!
yes. he will pull u down.
Yes, if you can't stand his behaviour and he won't change, then yes, leave him. If he loves you, he will end his sinful behaviour.
dump him cuz u dont want to be around when he get caught.
dump the dead beat bum!
Dump him and move on- he sounds like a loser and won't change! I wouldn't put up with it. Go find someone who deverves you. when a relationship causes this much stress theres no point. Lifes too short hun xx
Get rid sweety, he's draggin u dwn, u've done so much already 2 get where u r now dont let him ruinin it 4 u. Their is sum1 out there beta then him. He's draggin u dwn love get rid now. Easier sed then done i know but he's goin nowhere an u can see that, dont go there wit him xxxx