Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to go about dealing with BOYFRIENDS BESTFRIEND?

My boyfriends best friend just moved back to TX from FL. He moved into my boyfriends house and its the first time I've met him. It has taken a bit of the lime light away from me but I dont mind much. I really rather get in good with his bestfriend so when he starts to go out and look for a gf he respects me enough not to try and pressure my bf to cheat.





I'm always really nice say hi and bye. When I was first going to meet him I was going to my bfs and we both recently picked up the habit to eat pickles and doritos. Well not wanting to exclude his bestfriend i brough him some too! When I got there though my bf didnt introduce us his friend had to introduce himself and my bf took the extra pickle and doritos without telling his friend. When I asked him why he didnt tell his friend about the food he said more for us.Then he told his friend to leave. I kinda get the feeling my bf doesnt want me and his bestfriend to get too cool? Oh %26amp; all my girlfriends have boyfriends!





Ur opinions?How to go about dealing with BOYFRIENDS BESTFRIEND?
Could be a number of reasons.





1) He doesn't want to mix his friends with his girlfriend. He could have two mentalities with the two. With you, he's your sweet loving boyfriend. With his friends, he's a farting, belching monster. It could be that.





2) He could've lost former girlfriends to his friends, so while he may have trust issues. Assure him that you only want to befriend his friends as a way of getting closer to him, not to cheat on him.





3) He feels that pickles and doritos are your thing for the two of you (and that's a great tradition! I love pickles and doritos!). By inviting his friend, he feels as if he's losing something special he had with you.





Overall, I'd say, talk to your boyfriend about this. If you're nice and calm about it and that you care about him and his friends, he'll open up more and tell you how he feels about both of you, then you two can work things out. Good luck!How to go about dealing with BOYFRIENDS BESTFRIEND?
Don't be too nice to his friend or he might think you're making moves on him and get jealous.
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You have one confusing way of putting things. Sounds to me like your boyfriend is a bit of an ***. He should want his girlfriend and his close friends to get along. Perhaps he's afraid of you too getting too close(he might see you two becoming friends outside of him as a bad thing). You know you've gotta talk to your boyfriend and find out what's on his mind, you can't go making presumptions like the one I just did or he might think that there's a problem that he didn't know about.
doesnt sound like anything is very wrong.. oh i see selfishness..


tell him he doesnt need to worry..

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