Monday, August 16, 2010

How can i deal with my boyfriends mother who is always telling us what to do?

when we get into a fight she comes next to us and says there until we finally agree upon it. she also watches dvds with us in my boyfriends room. Last time she got on my nerves and i told her that we dont need anyone so that we agree upon a fight. can some on help me as now i'm shy to go to my boyfriends hows.How can i deal with my boyfriends mother who is always telling us what to do?
well really theres nothing you can do but talk about it or ignore it...best luck to you with this its so annoying.. well with the movie help watch movies at your place then...i dunno id be a little shy about going over too.. u can tell her you didn't mean anything by it or too offend her if you did and that it is up to you two to solve your problems not her but you do appreciate her efforts. and if you need any help you will go to her.....


and maybe that'll help out,.,,


best luck to uHow can i deal with my boyfriends mother who is always telling us what to do?
I would confront my boyfriend if I were you, and I would tell him how uncomfortable I felt with his mother keeping such a close eye on us. Explain to him that you would prefer being alone with him so that you two can truly bond without his mother constantly controlling you. A pushy mother should not be interferring with your relationship. If her son talks to her about her pushiness, she might ease up a bit and give you guys some freedom. Let her think that you are responsible, and ready to move on without the supervision of an adult. Good luck.
It's her house, and you need to show her more respect. You should know better than to be disrespectful to her. If you don't like her watching videos with you both it is up to your boyfriend to tall her, not you. If he doesn't have a problem with it - suck it up.





PS - maybe she doesn't want her son becoming a father at a young age.
Get out of the house and she will not be there to bother you. Go off someplace and spend time and you will be ale to deal with her better when you spend less time there. If you talk to her then she might undestand. ';Us working out little problems is part of learning and growing up if you give us a little chance to do this on our own.';
omg! dont you hate ';mother in laws';?


my boyfriends mom told him to dump me when I was 16(he was 17 1/2) because she felt that I wanted to get pregnant so he'd be stuck with me forever because Im such an evil little girl...


Thats really weird how she watches movies with you...is she married? or just really nosy/overly concerned?
Why do you think you can go into someone else's home and talk stupid to them that is her house and she pays the bills so she can stand anywhere she wants to. You are not too shy you are embarrassed to go. You owe her an apology.
Well if you are just a kid then she is just doing her job as a mom, if you are older than I would suggest not going to her house ne more.
stop spending all your time at his house- go for a walk - go to the park - go to a mutual friends house - go to the mall - walk the dog - throw a frisbee
Punch her in the face i did worked wonders well not her mother but her father and he dont say a word to me any more
stop telling strangers about how you feel about you r boyfriends mom and tell her
how old are you?


the moms just protective. In time that will change. you have to earn trust.
date out like downtown or at the plaza or at the movies...
get a boyfriend who has his own house. till then it's her house, her rules
tell your boyfriend you need a MAN, not a mama's boy
oh my she sounds like she has mental issues





cant u get your bf to say something?
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