How to deal with boyfriend getting fatter :(?

My boyfriend of 2 years has put on some weight in the past couple months and it's getting to bother me - i love him, but it's just one of those things. he eats horribly and it is finally starting to catch up with him - he won't exercise and insists that his job will get rid of it (he's in construction) but it isn't at all. I want him to come for a run with me, or eat well but he refuses...


what do i do!?How to deal with boyfriend getting fatter :(?
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well if i where you i would tell him to lose some wheight or no more bedroom activities (if you know what i mean)
maybe you just need to be creative....like if he wants to have sex with you....then insist that its only possible if you can sit on the top rail of the treadmill and he has to jog a little during the love making. that will start a landslide of calories burning...
that's a tough one.... a lot of relationships fail b/c one partner stops taking care of themselves and the other partner stops being attracted to them. I'm not really sure what to tell you, maybe offer to cook dinners or pack lunches and try and make them healthier for him, or ask him to go on walks with you? is there a downtown area where you live with shops? if there is it can be interesting to walk around places like that. If he really does not go for anything you try then it seems like he really does not care whether you find him attractive enough and that is a real problem.





and P.S. if you withhold sex like other people are suggesting it will get 100x worse. don't blackmail him into caring, he will resent the crap out of you.
What is your body status?


Are you fit and athletic looking?





If you wish to have him do some exercising, make it a duet thing.





Tell him you want to take a nice walk with him.


If you want him to eat more healthy, then eat the same kind of healthy thing with him.





Essentially, until he realizes what he does not see, you need to share the exercising with him.
Keep bothering him on his weight, insist he get some exercise on his days off. If you make dinner/lunch for him buy him the healthy foods, more salad less meat.
Tell him is bothering you and that if he really wants your relationship to work he has to adapt to your conditions the same way you adapts to his.