How to deal with my boyfriends ex-girlfriend?

Well, I have been with my boyfriend for six months now, and he has always been honest with me about him still talking to his ex-girlfriend and how they are just friends, but I found out that he only tells me half of the truth and doesn't tell me everything. I know for sure the ex wants to get back with him, but he tells me he would never go back with her, he just wants to be her friend because she is not a bad person. I just don't trust her. How should i deal with this?How to deal with my boyfriends ex-girlfriend?
Basing from what you've written, I can see that you are in a compromising situation. I do not blame you if you really feel that way towwards them. In all honesty, your boyfriend should be wise enought, smart enough on how to keep a good relationship going. But since he hasn't break his ties 'totally' with his ex-girlfriend, he is now jeopardizing his present relationship with you.





If your boyfriend is honest and sincere to go on with his relationship with you, he should have let go of 'any kind of friendship' with his ex-girlfriend, especially if that's making you feel very uncomfortable. Even if he says that he's just being friends with his ex, it's still not a good sight to see especially that he has an existing relationship with you. It's so easy for him to say that nothing's going on but take note that both of them had a past relationship and having one right now (although he just defines it as 'friendship'), would obviously hurt you and your relationship. No matter how good his ex-girlfriend is, he should be prepared to let go of her and just simply concentrate on his relationship with you as a lover and 'friend'.





In such situations, it's really hard to think %26amp; say that they're keeping a 'clean' friendly-kind of relationship, because the temptations would always be there for them. I am not implying that you have to think this way towards them, but it's merely the truth. For any relationship to succeed, both partners should be honest, sincere and transparent with their feelings with each other. But above all, GENUINE LOVE AND RESPECT should be there.





In your relationship, is 'respect' %26amp; 'genuine love' present?...If you feel that his ex is a threat to you and your relationship, let him know as soon as possible. Discuss your relationship with your boyfriend and know your priorities as a couple and to where your relationship is headed to. If your boyfriend still feels strongly about his ex and that he still insists on pursuing his 'friendship' with his ex, then you have to make a decision either to put a blind eye on it (and still hold on to your relationship) OR get yourself ready to go out of this compromising relationship. I am pretty sure that if you choose the latter, there are still many opportunities that'll come your way. And there are other guys who are definitely a one-woman man.How to deal with my boyfriends ex-girlfriend?
It could be envy or truly a person looking for your interest.But in reality you do'nt need no drama.Be smart trust your own mind.Tha independence of a single woman is tha bomb.NO LIES,NO DRAMA,AND NO HEARTBREAKS.Use your mind cuz tha heart is treacherous.It could lead to disaster.It is a heartbreak waiting.
It's not her that you have to worry about trusting.
tell him that you dont feel confortable with him talking to his ex girlfriend. And if he could keep distance from her. and if it dosent work you start talking to one of your ex's see how he likes it
kick her ***!!
Being friends with an ex. can be a good thing for those involved. However, the two of you should be very open and honest about it. If you know he isn't being honest and is filtering things from you, address them with him now. Talk to him about how it makes you feel and what you think the boundaries should be. Don't give him ultimatums, but rather make him understand how it makes you feel when he talks to her. Do all topics they discuss make you feel uncomfortable? Ultimately you need to have faith and trust in your relationship with him to be successful. I do not think it is healthy if one person wants to rekindle a relationship and the other does not. I would encourage your boyfriend to understand which relationship is more important to him and ask him not to disrespect the work the two of you are putting into your relationship.





Good luck!
His ex has made her intention clear and that you can trust. It seems that your boyfriend's intentions however, are not as clear. Can you trust him? He isn't being completely honest with you and he's nurturing a ';friendship'; with a woman who wants something more. I'd say he's given you reason for concern.

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