How do you deal with your boyfriends rude vindictive babys moma?

she constantly tries to make me jealous lies she cusses at him every chance she gets, and we are supposed to just act like every thing is fine and dandy i have kept a stiff upper lip with her but i lost my cool with her and we got into it verbally. i have never interfered but she made comments about me which is none of her business because they arent together anymore. how do i tell my man to tell his psycho baby moma to cool it or im goneHow do you deal with your boyfriends rude vindictive babys moma?
I hate the phrase ';baby mama'; more and more--and it always means trouble.How do you deal with your boyfriends rude vindictive babys moma?
Nice Lady--%26gt;Stereotyping is rude and offensive. Saying things like what you said shows that you have a prejudice attitude and a rude perception of people that are not like you. Living in the ghetto does not mean that you are always a victim of drama, crime, abuse, etc. Low-income families live in the ';ghetto'; and are not there by choice. There are always going to be people who are less fortunate than you but that does not make you better than them. I live in the suburbs and most of the families I have seen have some of the worst problems any person could ever have. Don't judge just be thankful that you do not have to live in a place where you don't want to live.





To answer your question, you just need to ignore this lady. She will eventually drive herself crazy and will feel no success if you and your man don't let her get under your skin. Her rage is driven by your response to everything she says or does. She wants you to be just as miserable as she is. If you stoop to her level then you are giving her just what she wants but if you ignore her ignorance and let her drive herself crazy then trust me, your life will be much better. I would suggest that you tell your man to not talk to her unless it's about their child. He shouldn't even want to converse with a person that is as rude as she is. Just tell him to keep his conversations with her to a minimum and ignore her.
They're all psycho in the beginning. Its like a territorial thing. Sometimes it not even cause they give a sh!t about the ex, but they're worried about the new girl who is now involved with their child, which was the case with me and baby mama #1.





Me and baby mama #1 are now really good friends. We go out clubbing together, we're constantly on the phone just talking about anything and everything.





It's great!
You're going to put up with this crap at least until the child is 18. You should really consider if any man is worth that kind of drama.





You may be so much in love with him right now, but he's allowing it to happen, and I'm even willing to bet that he gets a little thrill thinking about two women fighting over him. Take off those rose colored glasses and realize that when you're with someone who has baggage, you inherit their drama as well.





Either deal with it, or walk. The decision is YOURS not his.
I don't know why women can be so ignorant about their baby daddy's. My thing is if you're not together anymore, let him go, feel me? I'm so glad I didn't have to go through that crap.


Some of them do it just to be doing things thinking it will hurt his relationship with his new girl. Donot let her manipulate you, talk to him, if she keeps it up, beat the living dog s**t out of her. I know you don't want to exceed to violence, but sometimes especially with these younger girls, you might have to.
My short answer is run! My long answer is that I have many friends who have baby mama drama and they all were still having sex while they were beefing with the baby's daddy.


My experience with this sort of thing has proven that if there is any baby momma or baby daddy drama one of two things is happening. 1. he /she is not taking care of their responsibility or 2. they are still having sex or sending mixed messages. No one would waste their time pursuing someone that does not want them. I dont know your boyfriend but pay very careful attention to how they interact. And if she says they are having sex---believe her. Dont accuse him but eventually he will get sloppy.
Either kill her with kindness or mark your territory by being all lovey dovey with your man in front of her (love it!).





Not but for real. You need to tell him to talk to her and tell her to calm down or if it's too much to handle then leave him to deal with her on his own.
You've associated yourself with a person who has a lot of baggage. If he won't deal with this other woman, you're destined for problems for evermore.





Get him to deal with it or live with the results.
well for one its not his fault its hers and to leave him over her mamma dramma is just satisfing her .Ur are falling into her play maybe u should try ignoring it completely hey u got the man so rub it in make it know...their Wise she wins is that what u what?
He has NO control over her. Do not go with him when he picks up the child. Ignore her at all costs. When she acts stupid just smile and walk away. Take the high road, it is the road less traveled, but the better way to go.
Then go, this sounds somewhat childish to me, and you might as well end it. You don't want to be a source of this mess in front of a child.
If you love him and want to be with him you will have to suck it up and be a better person than her, if you leave she wins, it all depends on what you want.
Do you need to interact with her? Ignore the bad stuff she says about you and limit the time that you need to see her.
Your boyfriend's baby's mother is his issue. If he won't take action then do let him know you'll be gone. That kind of drama and nonsense isn't worth putting up with.
Time to move on. They still have way too much baggage to unload and all you are doing is putting yourself in with it.
You tell him just like you said in your last line.
you dont be with a guy with baby momma drama