How do you deal with a boyfriends teenage son that you absolutely can not stand? (I feel bad but he's awful)?

I adore my boyfriend and plan to spend the rest of my life with him, and I try to tell myself that his son is whiny, ungrateful, and disrespectful because he's a teenager but his ex has custody and I really think it is the way she's raising him but he's so unpleasant to be around that it makes me question if I can spend my life with this guy even though he only has his son one night a week.How do you deal with a boyfriends teenage son that you absolutely can not stand? (I feel bad but he's awful)?
Drop him. Just tell him what is going. Bring it up to him. Tell him how you feelHow do you deal with a boyfriends teenage son that you absolutely can not stand? (I feel bad but he's awful)?
2 solutions:





1. you aren't really with him that much, but if you really feel as though he is getting un bareably annoying, you should sit him down and talk tohim and tell him how you feel and that his behavior needs to change, because he is a teenager.





2. When your boyfriend has him the 1 night a week, try to spend time with him, he may feel like he's being pushed out because of you and therefore acts out to get some attention. Try to spend some time talking to HIM and not your boyfriend, just make him feel like he's still very important to both of you and that will help him behave better.
yes its proberly being a teenager, but i wouldnt worry, he's proberly just showing you whos boss and may underlining be worried about you taking over his dad, show him that your not a threat but dont let him walk over you and he may back down, boys are like dogs, they liked to mark there territory,


good luck :)





ps: if you love him, dont let his son get in the way :)
Awful in what way


try and view what you are like from his perspective


it's probably you


he's a teenager GOING THROUGH A TOUGH TIME





if you really love your bf you have to lovE his son UNINTENTIONALY


maybe your not the right couple ....