Help! how do I deal my boyfriends father who I hate to be around?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years and I love him to death. I have been around his father alot, and whenever I am, its so uncomfortable, when we go out to eat he creates a scene when we talk about a topic its like everyone has to agree with him, and most of all when my b/f is around my parents they never act like this. He has never met my parents still, and i'm totally scared for that day. He had a hard life, I understand, lossing his wife a few years back and bouncing from relationship to relationship, but how can someone never be happy, and complain about everything? What do i do, to make the situation better?Help! how do I deal my boyfriends father who I hate to be around?
Keep it light. Maybe he doesn't know that he is being this way or maybe he does and is just sarcastic. I would poke at him a little when he acts like this. Maybe he will see that it is annoying, and you might make him laugh..Sounds like he needs a good laugh.Help! how do I deal my boyfriends father who I hate to be around?
The father has some big emotional problems. You might google ';narcissism'; and it will give you a lot of information about what you're dealing with.





I would warn my parents about him so they aren't totally taken aback. And all you can really do is tolerate him and spend as little time with him as possible. He's not going to get better.