How to deal with boyfriends sister?

i have been with my bf for 5 mo. and i have been around his sister 3 times. the first time was okay-she complained about her life and was just overly dramatic (i prefer to stay in chill mode and love to laugh). after the first time meeting her i thought she was ok and i could be friends (shes about 1.5 yrs older) and i accepted her facebook invite ( i kno FACEBOOK-but i go to an out of state college and left all my bff's behind)


so on fb i tried talking to her since that was the only way i could-she never responded and when I commented on her post she just deleted it. then after she pulled another drama thing i just couldnt handle it and decided that we dont need any contact except for in person. nooo, couple hrs later she noticed we werent fb friends(i dont know how) and kept adding me and then sent me this message saying why wasnt i adding her-i dont want her to creep on me if that was her intention!


last time i was playing cards with her n my bf's fam and after she won the round i caught her staring at me-just staring i looked back three different times. and before she leaves she always tells her younger brother (my bf she loves him-to keep in touch- and hugs him and at times she almost intrudes on our conversations) when it comes to his sis theres no doubt that she loves attention but I get a vibe im threatening her and I have tried to talk to her but she refuses, so I have decided to not try anymore since she makes no effort....how would u handle my situation...i dont wanna confront her about her behavior because she will gossip to her friends and ofcourse turn it into a drama thing-I wont tolerate disrespect yet at the same time dont wanna start anything...advice please?How to deal with boyfriends sister?
1st of all it helps to understand her behavior. i take it that she is protecting her territory and herself. if you turn out to be bad news she can say she knew and also she can let u know as well shes on to you.





there is nothing you can do. she is a control freak. control freaks only wander where they are allowed. if you dont allow her to get a rise out of you and she knows shes barking up the wrong tree she will go else where with her business and actually respect you. let me tell ya i hope this guy is worth it cuz she will be hard to deal with at times. SILENCE IS GOLDEN.How to deal with boyfriends sister?
Add her on facebook


and comment on her post


if she deletes it again


you should confront her and ask her why and see how it goes from there


tell your boyfriend what is going on and let him help you sort it out








hope i helped x
Oh good grief, so she deletes your comments on face book, it's not the end of the world. Grow up, get a grip and quite whining.
She just wants you and is confused how to become your girlfriend
just make out with her.