How to deal with boyfriends crazy bitchy jealous older sister?

We have been together over a year and things are serious. His family is split and both sides wish the best for him and I and his dad even takes me over his sister to be in the family. BUT she is always saying something or causing drama and then putting it on me! ugh... I have said countless times I dont even want to get into it or hear what she has said and the whole family (incl. my guy) tells me that she is always like that just jelous and a bia...but it is soo anoying and I lately find myself getting mad a my guy for not puttig her in her place. Should I even care what she says if the whole family and all friends knows she is a spoild mean person? I have asked her to sit down and talk and she blows it off... I would like to figure things out,I am forgiving and nice person, but not so nice I want trashy things said about me or lies made up or being talked badly about all the time by one person (for no reason) it is sooo fustrated! What the heck do I do? My guy also says he is not getting in the middle of it b/c she will never change and she is still his sister and that what she is doing is not affecting anyone but her and I, But,,,,I think defferently....HELP!How to deal with boyfriends crazy bitchy jealous older sister?
Sounds like you've made the effort. Just kill her with kindness, sooner or later she'll come around. If she continues to act like a nasty bia ask yourself if your guy is worth it. If he is you'll find a way to deal with her.How to deal with boyfriends crazy bitchy jealous older sister?
You are letting someone else who is a known bully, control your emotions. Why?





If she says something to you or about you, you can just ignore it or tell her you're sorry she feels that way, then turn and talk to someone else - bring up a new subject.





The more you react to her, the more fuel you are giving her to continue. So if you don't care, she will eventually find someone else to pick on. Plus, you might try to find the humor in it -- it's too bad she's so miserable that she has to be nasty toward others, but her misery is rather funny.