he took more than space, he took a bow. I would forget him because If he hasn't contacted you in that length of time, it says that he doesn't care enough about you if at all.How to deal with boyfriend that asked for space and hasn contacted me in nearly a month?
There is no such thing as space in a relationship. If he asked for space that means he wants to explore other options. Ditch him if he comes back. Find better.How to deal with boyfriend that asked for space and hasn contacted me in nearly a month?
the same thing has happened to me but he asked me for 3 weeks, what i did was i freaked out and he told me that he will never say such a thing again and he said he's sorry but a week after that he told me that he cant take it anymore and he broke up with me and in a very harsh way too. so i thought after that, that what i did was wrong i should have given him the space that he wanted. so what u did leaving him for a month that was really great of u, and i dont think u should give him more time. what u do is that u go and meet him and talk really calmly with him and ask him whats wrong, DONT EVER GET ANGRY. but what i think from personal experience is that u should go to him and show him that u care and that u miss him, but if he tell u that he cant continue anymore, then tell him that he should have told u that long ago instead of making u wait. then leave him my dear and next time if he eves sees u he should regret what he did. i want u to be strong and look ur best that u did not get affected of him leaving u. good luck i hope urs doesnt end like mine, i wish i did what i just told u maybe it would have worked for me. but i think that he doesnt like u anymore. but remember dont ever break up with him before talking to him u must show him that u care.
asking for space in a relationship is a subtle way of saying he doesn't want to be with you and is exploring other options. If you don't hear from him, send him a blunt text message sayin ';this is just stupid, it's over'; and if you do hear from him ask him what he's been doing all this time and where you stand with him. If he comes up with a rubbish unacceptable answer- ditch him, he int worth your time.
And if the answer is reasonable, think about it..l do wts best for you
hope this helps xx
Man I think I'd get the point...
dump him!
Sadly, move on. Ever heard of the book He's Just Not That Into You? Go get yourself a copy.
Leave him. Think about it. U two grow up with each other and ur over 30+ year old and one day he just told him
';Honney we bin going out for more then 10 years and i think that i should get some space and leave the family for atleast a month. I will come back tho!';
Sorry babe. Don't wait on him. I been there, three months later after i told him about the new guy he came back. I let him come back though, but that was three months i could have been doing something better with my life. I may not have even wanted him. Honest Indian.
That sounds like a whole lotta space. Well If you love him work it out but if it was something new or a summer fling then let it go. But before you do anything find out what he's been up to while he was getting his ';space'; cause it doesn't sound like it was being faithful or trying to figure out where he wanted the relationship to go it just sound like he left you high and dry. Either way be happy his leaving might have been a blessing to you because leaving you to wonder for a month doesn't make him sound like to nice of a person anyway, life's too short to be unhappy. I hope you figure it out
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