My boyfriends parents just did renovations on their home- which may or may not be while they have been particularly hard on us staying there lately ( we are both in school, in our mid twenties). We help out as much as we can, we try our honest hardest to be as little a nuisance as we can and even go out of our way to try to do special things for them.
They don'tt appreciate what we do, and are very vocal about it to my boyfriend ( their son). To my face they are nice, but they put him down and make him feel so terrible about being in this situation. He feels helpless, i feel mad because we try our hardest and we both have no other options right now because we cant afford to go to school and pay rents. Help!! I don;t even feel comfortable going over there right now :SHow to deal with boyfriends anal parents?
It sounds like you're living with them. You deal with it by moving out of their house. If my son even suggested bringing in a girl to shack up with him under my roof I'd put an end to that idea real quick.
You have no other options? I suspect you do. I attended college full time, worked a full time job (a crappy one), and paid all my bills (yes, rent too) on my own, and I did it for 4 years. True, I got next to no sleep and had no social life, but I wasn鈥檛 depending on someone else to support me either.
Go find a job and move out.How to deal with boyfriends anal parents?
you have to bow down and bear it for now.
but just remember... one day, you shall have your revenge.
when you two get married and have a baby - make it living hell for them to have anything to do with the child. Make it clear to them they are a complete nuisance.
pay em back thrice fold!
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