How do I deal with my boyfriends mother?

my boyfriend is 33, however, his mother treats him like his is 13. he wont do anything without her approval first. He lives in his own home, yet is mile from her. Now she doesnt like me and is trying to pull him away from me. I dont knwo what to do, he says he loves me, yet has to lie to his mother and tell her I slept on the couch.How do I deal with my boyfriends mother?
Unfortunatly, Ive faced this issue before but with my mother-in-law, and 3 sister-in-laws. I just continued to be myself, dont give in a try and change your personality or what not in attempt to get approval. My husband came around after about a year of dating. It helped my husband and I to validate each other every now and then, but if he hasn't changed after awhile, he probably never will, and its probably better that you move onHow do I deal with my boyfriends mother?
That's his decision and you really shouldn't bug him about it. If he wants his mom's opinion first, that's fine. (:





But his mom not accepting you might serve as a problem. It's not achieving a good impression, but rather achieving acceptance. Try to let her understand you. If she refuses to accept you, then at least get your boyfriend to back you up. If he won't even do that, I honestly don't think he's worth it.
he has to tell her to stop treating him like that. he is a grown man. Thats one problem with men. when they get a girlfriend its a battle between mother or future wife. But since its there mom they tend to go toward mom because moms help alot.
Find a man your own age whose cord is no longer attached to mommy. If after 33 years he still accepts being treated like he's 13-he's not going to change soon or for you-he won't even tell the truth about you. Stop being his dirty little secret-
if he won't brave his mother for you, he isn't worth it.





moms are almost never happy with they're childrens' significant other.
Wow.....33 yrs old and actin like that...mabey u shuld find sum1 else