How do i deal with my boyfriends mother?

In short, my boyfriends mom does not think i am good enough for her son. He is gorgeous, ambitious and talented, while im pretty average, basic and a rather dull individual i must confess.





She told me if i loved him id leave him. Im upset and wont tell him because he thinks the world of his mom. I dont want to cause any drama. Do i just deal with her opinion of me? Should i tell him, and come between them? i may be holding him back, should i let him go?How do i deal with my boyfriends mother?
Ah, that's normal it happens always. If you love your boyfriend go for it. You have to deal with your BF's mom. You have to prove yourself to her. And later you BF will discover about it. Then between you and your BF can work it out how to deal with his mom. Simply your love to each other will prevail. Yeah if its true. It's worth it if your BF really loves you.





I would say its not disrespect to the parents if you disagree with their choice and as long you two dont do bad things together.





So go for it and see.How do i deal with my boyfriends mother?
Well, he's with you so I'd guess maybe you have more going for your than you think. Don't be so down on yourself. I would suggest that the next time the 3 of you are together, you ask his mother if you can talk. Tell him right up front what she said and say it in front of her. Don't be confrontational, just questioning. If you say it in front of her, she can hardly deny saying it. At least it's out in the open from then on and your bf will see how she feels about you. And she will be warned that the next time she trashes you, you will confront her in front of her son. She sounds like a real wacko whom I'd avoid as much as possible.
If you want to keep him, you better tell him exactly what she said, tell him how you feel and ask him what you as a couple should do. His Mother is a manipulative snake. Let him make the decision to a) confront his mother or b) He just wants to let it go.


If he does a) he really cares for you and wants to make it work with you.


If he does b) He is a Mummy's boy and always will be and you are better off without both of them





A real Man chooses his life-mate over his Mother
I think you should tell him with his mom said. Its also not about how someone looks it's about the person on the inside.If he cares for you like he should he will respect that you came to him with this info and will not fault you for what she said.
you are not dating her you are dating him. don't go around her any more. and if he asks why wait until the opportunity presents itself and tell. you just continue to be the best girlfriend he ever had. do him not her. one day she will eat her words.
Your dating your boyfriend not his mom. His mom cant tell him who 2 love or not that's his choice n he's with you. N sum things ppl do stuff there parents don't like but yet got 2 accept it.
just answer 1 question do you love him? well there you got your answer. dont care what his mother thinks .