What is my boyfriends deal? PLEASE HELP?

we have been together 6 months. he a great guy and does a lot like makes dinner occasionally and buys me flowers. He compliments me and says he loves me, calls me, etc....





He has been cheated on alot in the past, but I am very open and upfront with him and I would NEver EVEr do that. So maybe that has something to do with it?





I just dont get why he wont do things that I ask him to do. I rarely ask, but when I say, can you take me out more, he gets mad and asks if he is boring. Hes not, I just want to go out with him more. We only go out to eat like once a month and I love going out.





When I ask him to hang out with his family he gets mad and asks why i need to get to know them, and isnt he enough. He says he isnt close with them, but he lives at home and his mom wants to get to know me. So, I dont get why he wont let me.





Whenever we get into a fight he says im being crazy and it pisses me off because I am just telling him how I feel. I dont even scream or anything, I just calmly say how I feel. He treats me like a child when I get mad, which makes me even more mad.





I am a little bit of a needy person, and I try to be reasonable and not ask too much, so I guess I am wondering if I am making a big deal out of nothing, or if he doesnt care enough about me. I dont know what to doWhat is my boyfriends deal? PLEASE HELP?
Maybe he doesnt like you, or are using you simply for a booty callWhat is my boyfriends deal? PLEASE HELP?
well you could maybe offer to take him out somewhere, tell him u like to do things with him like eat out,watch movies etc.. If he still doesnt want to do anything, the maybe threaten to leave him, it might scare him into taking you out more





For his family... u could show up at his house one day and try to talk to his family
1- To get him to take you out more, start going out without him once a week. He'll see it's either he goes out with you, or you're going anyway.


2- The family. If he isn't close with them, there's probably a reason why. And he doesn't want to talk about it. And won't. So don't go there. And a mother/son relationship is touchy in the best of circumstances. He's obviously not comfortable with you just hanging out with her- respect his stance, there's probably a reason for what he's doing, even if he won't tell you.


3- The fights. Well, you said you can be needy. What are the fights about. Depending on what they're about, he could very well think it's 'crazy' that you're getting mad about a certain thing.


Just try to be a little more mellow about the whole 'he doesn't care enough' Since you're aware of the fact you get needy at times, you can catch yourself before it becomes full blown paranoia.