How do I deal with a boyfriends ex's without coming off as rude?

So I've only talked about this to one friend but I though I could get better advice here as there are more than one opinion.





Here's the deal.





My boyfriend is still friends with some of his ex's AND they all go to our college. That's not what I am having a problem with. His last ex girlfriend was an acquaintance of mine 3 years ago. After a while she just stooped talking to me and we lost touch.





My boyfriend and I started dating 2-3 months ago. It's been great and he's given me no reason to think he is a bad guy. He's always attending to my needs,taking me out,showing people he loves me IN PUBLIC at school so I know he's not embarrassed of me. Taken me to meet his best friends from high school and they liked me as well.





The thing is his last ex GF's guy friend tried to add me as a friend on facebook. But only did so AFTER my boyfriend listed me as his girlfriend. This friend of hers and I do not get along yet he was trying to add me. After I rejected him, a month later SHE requested me as a friend. So to be nice I asked her why and she said she JUST realized who I was. And didn't know my last name(even though I'm on her myspace with my entire REAL NAME). She SAID congrats to our relationship but she still refuses to talk to me at school or other wise.





It really just seems like she wants to see the things I say to my BF and see what I DO on my facebook. She's only commented once asking me how my day was. But she only asked because my BF kissed me and she saw it. Again I say, he doesn't care who sees that he loves me but some how I think she may be jealous.





She's the one who broke up with him after all. She didn't want him and now she is being very sneaky. What can I tell her or do to deal with this?How do I deal with a boyfriends ex's without coming off as rude?
just tell your bf about it to see what he says about it..How do I deal with a boyfriends ex's without coming off as rude?
Uh... I would ignore her. Refusing to let people into your life who are only there to cause drama isn't rude, it's smart. Block her on Facebook (it will make it as though you don't exist, she can't search for you, see your posts, etc) and ignore her on campus, since she ignores you anyway. If you refuse to acknowledge her attempts to start drama, she'll eventually go away.