How do I help my boyfriend deal with stress due to his financial issues?

He is depressed and fearful of what lays ahead . He owns a home and has several bills and financial responsibilities . Unexpected expenses have just arisen with his car which needs repairs .





It hurts me to see him like this , and I worry that he may self - harm .


I've suggested to him to find a higher paying job or get rid of his house and move in with me , but he wont take my advice.





I struggle financially as well , otherwise I'd be able to pitch in money wise....





What do I do to help ?How do I help my boyfriend deal with stress due to his financial issues?
I believe we haven't seen the end of this chapter of our lives.I hope this will rebound quick but it took a wile to get here its gonna take some work to get through it . I think even normally stable people are going to be cautious. It .would make perfect sense to pool your resources .Sometimes that option will ruin a great relationship because of money being an issue from the beginning .He may know this fact and just not want to loose you .You have made the suggestion ,make it again and try not to make him feel pressured .Your guy is already stressed just be supportive, he will be forced into decision by life's turns and twists ,just don't be part of the stress.How do I help my boyfriend deal with stress due to his financial issues?
Why don't you pool your finances and move in with him?