Radical idea... if you love him, you could take up smoking yourself.
If you make some effort to stay in shape after starting, you're less likely to die from it. Will help you bond too.
Don't buy the anti-smoking hype. It's awesome if you're willing to accept a lifestyle change.How do i deal with my boyfriends smoking habits when im not a smoker?
Ok.
Really depends on how strongly you feel about the guy. If its just a causal relationship then a few bad habits could be enough to put you off.
But if you love the guy. Like really really love him, then it shouldn't matter.
It's his choice to be a smoker and you can't force him to give up.
The most impotent thing in a commited relationship is honestly. Talk to him, explain your feelings but make it clear you are not asking him to change for you and that you will still love him regardless.
It is perfectly reasonable for you to ask him if he would mind not smoking around you. Particularly in an enclosed area. That way you will not be exposed to the harmful effects of his second hand smoking.
The long and the short of it is, if you really think this is the guy you want to be with you should be able to look beyond his Habit.
Hope that was of some help.
Have a brillant life!
tell him how strong you feel for him, but warn him about the risks of smoking. after 12 years, it will have already made a big impact on his body. but do your research and find what it does to your body and why he should stop. this is an easy way to try to make him stop smoking. if that doesnt work, then tell him the real reason, that your not comfortable with it. if he doesnt accept it, then he may not be worth it. i know that seems harsh, but if your in love, some things need to be on the same page.
hope this wasnt too harsh and at least a bit of a help.
good luck. (:
One of my employees has been smoking for 40 years. And she is currently using Chantix and she seems to be cutting down.
I was a smoker for 6+ years when I meet my boyfriend he did not smoke he just talked to me and told me how much he loved me and that smoking is pointless and it will damage me permanently, waste my money and might kill me.
Once he said that it just clicked ';Why would I do this it is pointless'; And I quit! Talk to him and tell to weigh out the good and bad of smoking. And that smoking is pointless and WILL kill him!
You can always encourage him to quit, and maybe you'll help him to do so. Just don't go into the relationship assuming he'll change, because that isn't realistic -- it's amazingly addictive and even people who stop successfully frequently go back to it.
well first of all it is a possibility that he might get upset,anyways you just let him know that you care about his health and he loves you he'll listen even if he gets upset,it is not a habit that you can stop just like that so it'll take time.but just keep convincing him.
let him smoke, if u really love him u should let him smoke, tell him its bad and he should quit but u cant make a person change, they have to do it on their own
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