How to deal with boyfriends annoying family or bf being a mommas boy?

So my boyfriend and I are moving next week and this weekend he decided to go to the beach with his family and take some extra time off work. He doesn't like the beach, sees his family ALL the time, and is only going because there's a pool table at the place they are renting... so his next couple of paychecks will suck and he's the one that pays rent. I'm stuck paying a lot more than a should at the moment and he doesn't seem to care at all. I'm in college, I have bills, and I only work as a CASHIER so I obviously don't make much money. I'm also left to deal with all the stuff we are selling via Craigslist by myself which is frustrating beyond belief. E-mails, phone calls, people stopping by.





So anyways, I'm stupidly upset over him going when he said he wouldn't in the first place. How am I supposed to just put it behind me and forget about it? I generally stay angry for weeks, if not longer. He knows how upset I am over it and claims he's sorry but he HAS to go (which is BS, he had the option obviously). I was invited but declined as I have BILLS to PAY and stuff to PACK. And of course his mom doesn't understand why I didn't think he should go or why I didn't want to go. She was like ';Oh, well, you should still go,'; like missing bills is okay. It's not.





I'm so sick of his stupid family and all the stupid things they do. They always invite him last minute too so if we have plans, they are suddenly cancelled or moved around.





How do you deal with annoying families? Or a bf/gf that is a mommas boy? And daddys boy. And answers every whim of his siblings as well (he's in the middle). He basically has to be there for everything and it's just not always possible.How to deal with boyfriends annoying family or bf being a mommas boy?
Sounds like you two need to have a serous talk. If he is going to what ever his parents want him to do first over work and you and you don't agree with it. Then you need to end the relationship. What happens if you get married and his parents want to do something the day you plan to get married, are you going to move your wedding day or the day you give birth and he will not be there because his parents want him to do something. Also call his parents %26amp; talk to them. Tell them how you feel. Maybe they can change.


Good luck


Jennifer